I used to hate Johnlock but then I watched the BBC version. I ship them, but only in that series. Like if it was the books or the Robert Downy Jr. version I would think it's weird.
wow i am actually literally 100% the opposite of that
like the rdj version they are BASICALLY TOTALLY MARRIED and rdj is snarky but reasonable and i am way on board with it
but in the bbc sherlock version sherlock is just SUCH AN ASSHOLE and like it could come off as cute and snarky like in rdj but to me it just comes off as him… being an asshole. and callously manipulating people like a spider in the middle of a web made of less-selfish human interactions